"I always had a feeling this day would come, but now that it's here I am feeling a vast array of emotions (you might even say a spectrum). On the one hand, I have been extremely touched by the vast outpouring of support on this controversial decision and more relieved than I expected I would be. I am also thrilled to be in San Francisco during this time as it is a hub of the queer rights movement and liberal ideologies. On the other hand, I recognize that this only solves a small issue in the scheme of civil rights for LGBTQ+ individuals, let alone all citizens. Nonetheless, I choose to view this as a stepping stone though on the path to a brighter tomorrow where equality is a reality rather than a construct. I honestly don't believe that I will see FULL equality and understanding in my lifetime (and certainly not as long as we continue trying to label individual gender identities and sexual orientations), but today has invigorated me to continue fighting for humanity, striving to understand, and speaking up rather than speaking for. Given this, I feel it is unquestionably a cause for celebration because to be frank, in our current sociopolitical climate, we need to appreciate the little victories when we get them. As an ally once said, "a piece of paper isn't going to solve it all, but it's a damn good place to start."
Now, if only I had a boyfriend..."
Until next time,
Nate
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